Soul Squad Jr. Sanctuary – Teen Zone - Building Understanding – The Parent/Teen Bridge
For Parents:
This isn’t about “winning” conversations. It’s about connection.
Tips for Hearing Your Teen Without Fixing Them
- Listen first, respond later. Let them finish before jumping in.
- Validate before you advise. Try: “That sounds like it’s been a lot for you.”
- Ask, “Do you want advice or just someone to listen?”
- Resist the urge to solve — sometimes the solution is just being heard.
Real Talk Starters That Work Both Ways
These work for parents and teens:
- “What’s one thing you wish I understood about your day?”
- “How can I support you right now?”
- “Want to vent or brainstorm?”
- “What’s something that’s been on your mind lately?”
A Quick Guide for Parents Whose Kids Are “Waking Up”
If your teen is questioning the world, systems, or beliefs — this can feel intimidating.
- Stay curious, not defensive. Ask why they feel that way.
- Learn alongside them. Explore topics together — even if you disagree.
- Model open-mindedness. Show them it’s okay to evolve your perspective.
- Avoid shame or fear tactics. Those shut down trust.
- You don’t have to have all the answers. You just have to be willing to walk alongside them while they find theirs.